Smart, Successful, single women.

Look, I’m not gonna pretend like I have all the answers. But…. I saw this and had to say something. I mean, there I was laying in bed after reading Marcus Aurelius all day, and I couldn’t not!

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Yes. Approachability requires non-threatening. But the confident successful types typically want someone they can respect, and wrongly see playfulness as weakness. But to be approachable you need to be playful.

It’s all part of that hurt people hurt people thing I think.

But yeah. You want a guy to ask you out? Let’s start with why you?

Your answer to that question will say A LOT. Record yourself answering this question. Wait a week. And listen to it. If you stand by what you said AND it

- doesn’t make you sound full of yourself,

- doesn’t make you sound vicious,

- doesn’t eliminate the possibility that you understand one day you’ll be old and need someone to help you wipe your butt because you won’t be able to reach,

Then go ahead and tell men how great you are, ask them out, take the lead.

As famed CEO of the company that almost broke democracy once said… “Lean in!”

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The preceding post is real. It resulted from the bad habit of doomscrolling. All liability for hurt feelings, poor taste, and idiocy lies with the hypnotic engine of the social media conglomerate harvesting my attention and brain power to waste in the name of “selling ads”. The preceding post did not contain course language, but due to its content should not be read by anyone.